What are you going to write about? Not only write about but also do so in a meaningful and interesting manner. Before you attempt to start to write, gather information for your memoir.
Some of that information you already know and you have only to look inward to connect with it again. This info can be collated with that greatest of memoir-writing tools, the Memory List.
Other info is beyond recollection and memory. That is, you probably never knew it or knew it only vaguely, but it is important to giving your story depth and credibility. For instance, in what year did the Baptist church burn to the ground—important if your father was the minister! Or, when was the school district consolidated? This is important if your mother lost her teaching job as a result of the merger.
Finding cause and effect
This information is often useful to making cause and effect sequencing. If the school closed in 1961 but your mother began freelance reporting for the local newspaper in 1959, then the closing may have precipitated her becoming a full-time reporter in 1961 rather than later, but it was not really the reason she went into journalism. The reason now seems to be one of interest.
Some of the info you gather will provide a historical background while other material will help you to assess decisions and outcomes. You have to do some research to gather this material. It is cultural and political and historical information that is not available by recall. It can only be found by some sort of research. It is very important in creating context for a memoir. This context is generally your setting.
In conclusion
By clicking on the links below, you will pick up many suggestions for researching to write a more meaningful memoir, where to go to gather information and how to “harvest” it and use it.
Instead of A Writing Prompt – Five Tips for Creating a Memory List
People who are writing a memoir will sometimes say, “I want to write my stories but I have forgotten so many details. Is there any way I can get them back? Should I use writing prompts?” There is one tool above all others that makes the experience of life writing successful. That tool is not […]
5 Steps to Gathering Stories at Family Events
Gathering stories at family events—interviewing—is one of these basic steps you can master for writing your memoir. Following these basic steps, anyone can succeed at writing interesting and meaningful memoirs. People love to tell their stories… (more…)
Get More Info From Your Photos–The small details for your memoir are in your photos
Look with new eyes to get more info from your photos “Where do I find more details for my memoir?” you ask. “I remember a lot and I’ve done my Memory List, but where are the small stuff I need to ground my memoir—and possibly provide new insights?” (more…)
Mine Your Family Stories
There is a rich lode of stories that you can tap into quickly both for their historical content and for what they tell you about how members of your family wanted their young to be. These are “family stories.” (more…)
(More) Better than Prompts: Five Tips to Help You “Jog Your Memory”
When starting on a memoir, it can be difficult to remember all the stories and memories you would like to include. You naturally want to jog your memory. When you are intent on writing “from the inside out” as we at The Memoir Network hope you will, there are some useful techniques you can use—to […]
Ten Questions On Memoir Writing
(The following interview appeared in the Nov. 19, 2010, Oral History Education blog.) How did you get started in your profession of memoir writing? I started writing autobiography-based fiction. Some of these have won literary awards, and, while I like that, I feel the most satisfaction from helping readers who are stimulated to tell their […]
Looking for the Right Details
I’ve been thinking again of looking for the right details to enhance your memoir. Of course, details are crucial in the what of a memoir as well as in the who, the where, and the when. They are the facts of your memoir, but there is an expanded role for details in memoir writing. Here […]