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As you prepare to write the memoir you have so long desired to have, you may be moved by memories or feelings that urge you to explore them and preserve them in writing. This is your impetus to launch your memoir project, but it is generally not enough to sustain your writing over the long haul without pre-writing.

As you put your memories down on paper, you find that your memory or feeling is vivid but it is not fleshed out with sufficient detail to sustain the reader’s interest nor to convey the essence of the memory or feeling.

Pre-writing to the rescue

The solution that will pull you out of this morass is likely to be pre-writing.

Pre-writing as the posts below explain is the process of gathering and ordering information before you begin to write.

No memoir should be written without some or even significant pre-writing. What you do before writing is important. Learn more about recalling information and organizing your writing in the posts below before you begin.

Think of writing a memoir as you would think of painting a room. A lot of the work when you paint is in the preparation: moving furniture out, washing the walls, taping the edges, stirring the paint (and buying the paint!). If you don’t do this preparation, painting will take hours longer in the end because you’re going to have to keep stopping to get stuff out of your way or to clean up mistakes.

Memoir pre-writing can play the same role of speeding up the process.

In conclusion

Remember: fail to plan; plan to fail. Do not omit to plan in the form of pre-writing.

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Writing a memoir: how to

Writing a memoir is not easy.

Writing a memoir requires a lot of time and energy—but you can do it. You can succeed in writing a memoir. Many people just like you have succeeded in doing so already.

I want to share a system with you for getting started on writing a memoir.

As with so many projects you might undertake, you can reinvent the wheel or you can plug into a system that has been shown to work. My Memoir Network has been helping people just like you to write personal and family stories since 1988 and our proven system can help you, too, to write a memoir.

The system that I have found to be best for launching new writers—and many practiced writers, too—has three parts to it.

1. When writing a memoir, create a memory list.

A Memory List is a list of everything you remember either in your life or in the life of the person you are writing about or, instead of memory listing an entire life, you can choose a part of a life—the period you are currently writing about. In fact, I usually ask people to chose some small period of their intended memoir and To make a Memory List of that time.

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Four Tips for Writing a Better Memoir

To write a better memoir, make use of the core memory list. The extended memory list does not make value judgments about the quality of your memories. The core memory list, however, distinguishes between two sorts of memories— the important from the unimportant.