Lesson: 5
Writing A Memoir Is a Statement of a Personal Myth
The gods, of course, had abrogated the making things to themselves. If humans could make things, then would they not be as gods? (Some modern Christian theologians maintain that creation continues to happen via the agency of humans.)
The Olympians, however, did not want to share this prerogative and would not forgive Prometheus for stealing their fire. He was chained to Mt. Caucasus and his liver was eaten away every day. (The only thing that would save him was a god forfeiting his divinity in exchange for Prometheus’s freedom.)
This story tells us of the great cost that can sometimes be incurred when we go against the prevailing opinions of the culture and of the age. If there is someone in your memoir who has defied the “gods” and has had to pay a great price, s/he is a Promethean figure. People who defied McCarthyism in the 1950s paid the price of being blacklisted. Another example is of people who refused to jump on the Iraq war bandwagon in 2002 and who also paid a price. For instance, the French were slapped with the approval of the entire Senate for telling the truth about the Iraq war. The name French fries was changed to freedom fries. (Not one of the more reassuring instances of the Senate exercising its collective wisdom.) As hysterically, the American public indulged in boycotting French wines. This is a more recent example of how no one tells the truth without paying for it.
And what do Adam and Eve have to tell us about personal myth?
An analogous story, also from the Mediterranean basin, appears in the Judeo-Christian tale of Adam and Eve who ate from the tree of good and evil. The tree of good and evil is identifiable as consciousness. Ingesting the fruit would make them as gods. Like Prometheus, the two paid a great price for daring to access divine prerogatives. (And like Prometheus, the two and their descendants could be redeemed only by a god exchanging his divinity for their humanity.)
Ok, how is this like memoir writing? Writing a memoir is nothing if not daring to access a divine prerogative—consciousness of your life or of the life of your subject.
In writing a memoir, you act as a god, accessing knowledge of good and evil, you become a maker, a creator of personal myth.
The challenge of telling your personal myth
As mentioned, there can be a terrific price to pay to access the fire of consciousness.
- First of all, there is the difficulty of creating. It’s not easy to sit down time after time to focus on your story. We all have a great reluctance to do so—we procrastinate, we doubt ourselves, we silence ourselves in so many ways. To succeed, one must struggle with the jealous gods within us who would keep us in ignorance, far from the fire of the knowledge of the good and the evil of our lives.
- Then there is the challenge of speaking our truth—whether it is big or little. We will garner criticism for speaking out about ourselves. We will be cast away from groups, cast from the Eden of unconsciousness.
- Anyone who writes is, at times, tortured with memories of loss and grief, of deception and abandonment. It is impossible to live in the imaginary world of a memoir without having to struggle with one’s demons, the blackbird pecking away at the liver.
Myths are stories that explain psychic processes.
When you are writing a memoir, you are engaging in a profound psychic process of re-creating a world, articulating a personal myth. It is a wonderful experience but let the myths enlighten you as to the price you will have to pay.
Action Steps
Journal the following questions:
1. What does the Prometheus myth help you understand about your personal myth?
2. Are you speaking your truth? Have you been criticized for speaking your truth?
3. As you deal with your demons, “the blackbird pecking away at the liver”, what have you discovered about yourself?
4. Re-read the myths and journal how they enlighten you about your personal myth.
In conclusion…
Whatever you do today, write a bit on your memoir.
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