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Theme is what you are trying to say—whether banal or sublime—beyond the facts. It is the spirit or the soul of your memoir.

It and it determines what, within the bounds of telling the truth, you include in your memoir.

Theme also determines how the narrator of your memoir presents the story. To support your theme, you will select one narrator or another.

Theme is closely influences voice and tone.

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Is Theme in a Memoir The Driving Force?

How important is theme in a memoir? Theme in a memoir is absolutely important! Here’s is a distinction between a family-focused autobiography and a memoir that, I hope, will help you to appreciate the value and the role of theme in a memoir.

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Is theme important in memoir?

Theme influences choices for every element in the story: plot development, characterization, and setting.

So is theme important in memoir? Let’s look at these elements. Here’s the shell of the plot: your father was laid off; a difficult time followed for the family; your father received additional training and obtained a different job. [Free Membership required to read more. See below. ]

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Writing About Religious Beliefs in a Memoir

Writing about religious beliefs can be a quagmire for the memoir writer. How can you write about religious beliefs without sinking your memoir? The answer that I can offer you comes down to the same old suggestion: show and don’t tell.

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Shaping Your Theme

Shaping Your Theme

The theme is the message—the why—of your writing.

You imbue the whole of your story with your theme and it, in turn, influences the choice of every element in your story—even when you’re not aware of it. In fact, all writing carries a message from the writer, an index of the motivation of the artist. Theme can be as broad as “There are good guys and bad guys, and you can tell them apart” and as subtle as “I want to tell others what it was like to live at a certain time of my life.”
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